"...The Telegraph describes a popular Reddit thread which asks, “What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it makes them less attractive?” and then goes on to list some of the more surprising responses:
“Upper-lip piercings are deemed ‘trashy’.
Tracksuits with the word ‘juicy’ emblazoned on the posterior are a no-no, as are hoop earrings, 'old lady perfume', ballerina shoes, long nails or bold lip colours (unless, you are one of those women who can 'rock it')...
...the responses the men gave made me stop and think. If their answers could be boiled down to a few words, they would likely say that they are uninterested in women who act as self-absorbed attention seekers.
Unfortunately, many in today’s society – both men and women – have been trained to be just that.
Parents have been told to center life around their child in order to promote their self-esteem.
Students increasingly suffer from “emotional dependency,” a condition in which it’s difficult to function without continual affirmation and praise.
Society has normalized the Culture of Narcissism, which leads toward “dependence on the vicarious warmth provided by others, … calculating seductiveness, … and deteriorating relations between men and women.”...
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